There is no happy wrap-up here, so good
luck figuring out this snarl; I don't solve the problem, merely pose
it.
Camus, in “An Absurd Reasoning,”
wrote that the question that is of first importance for philosophy is
whether it is worth it to continue to live. Why not suicide? What I intend to get at here is not that it is
a delusion to want to continue – Camus thought suicide was a
mistake. The delusion has to do with life, but, once suicide is out
of the way, the question of first importance after that will come
into view.
“Man never thinks so much as when he
is suffering,” wrote someone who sounds wise to me. I am not
“really” suffering; there will nearly always be someone who will
or who will have, or who is suffering, more than any speaker; yet
Alain de Botton tells us not to disparage ourselves for what
suffering we do endure, nor
to disparage our suffering itself as unimportant. Such is most of my
suffering: mental, emotional, spiritual,
rather than physical. Goethe wrote, “What are the pains of the
flesh compared to the agonies of the spirit?”
My
“super-ego” is typically an obnoxious drunk sitting next to me at
a bar … this imaginary person spouts what passes for wisdom among
the parroting thoughtless. This person always has a put-down ready.
One has to be humble enough to admit one does suffer from one's
problems. Suffering, to my super-ego barfly, is false: it insults
their vanity. Unless you are suffering in a narrow way and more than
anyone else, the idea that one is suffering is ruled out, in the
ternary opposition of this subhumanizing fool. One is either “truly”
suffering, which is ruled out; one is close to an unfeeling neutral
(one's above having any feelings); or one is in the ecstasies of
drugs or sex. Finer gradations simply don't occur or are unworthy of
consideration.
My
super-ego is an average fool. With a comfortable job, no commitments
admitted, he or she inhabits an inane interstitial paradise of
low-level intoxication, where dullness turns into supercilious know-it-all-ism. You've likely met, and detested, this
person. This imaginary person, “based on actual events,” is
suffering, in an
insufferable way, from a delusion.
It's
not as simple, here, as concluding one's own self-importance, alone, is
at issue. Perhaps it is a constellation of signs and symptoms, a
syndrome with multiple dimensions. It is a complex
in this sense. (While I have used the psychoanalytic term,
“super-ego,” I do not intend “complex” in a precise
psychoanalytic sense.)
The
status quo, for our super-ego companion, is simultaneously
unquestionable and held up as obviously inevitable. “Obviously” –
the fool will berate me if I disagree, and will treat me as if they
think I am stupid. Maybe the delusion has a significant eristic
component: the fool will try to “win” the conversation at any
cost to reasonable thought. It is as if it is a battle not of wits
but for existence.
This used to be clearer when I was ten years old. Now there are too
many confounding factors, and I quickly become confused in areas like
this one.
The
companion, stalking through my mind's recesses – popping in to irk
me – seems to think I am out to get them. Out to obliterate them.
It's either them or me, in a struggle of life and death. It is a
Sartrean encounter: the hateful look is used to take
away my status as a fellow human being. It is an attempt to destroy
my subjectivity, to nullify my existence: my super-ego is trying to
kill me.
My
experience of this onslaught is protection against the mob.
Regardless of the metaphysical status of the mob's “mentality,”
there is a characteristic lowering of thought in a towering chimeric
giant formed out of individuals. The “shitstorms of the Net” have
their basis in mobs of bodies. I have a super-sensitive self-censor,
who functions to protect me from having my subjectivity nullfied by
fools, by playing the parts of them in my imagination. I am advised
to stay indoors!
Where
can such self-censorship lead? The
“anti-psychiatrist,” R. D. Laing, wrote that we say we are
pressured by “society,” but that it is we who apply the pressure
upon ourselves. That's what seems to be going on here; but why apply
it at all? Society.
And we are society. We are part of the miasmic “society,” a
popular enough villain, so often invoked whether for praise, or in
dismay or outrage.
This
sort of self-curbing has led to a society
in which children no longer play outside unsupervised. It is better,
says the chimeric super-ego, to keep them within reach and indoors.
Connected to the neural-drip of the shitstorms of the Net. Safe in
body and assailed in mind, in spirit. Turpitude as brain food!
Is the
delusion in question the belief, that one can escape the self-censor?
Or is it that one cannot (and so the censor must be obeyed)? Is it
both: to escape the censor we must obey it? I think Zizek has spoken
of this paradoxical trap in some way.
I have
no happy ending in mind; rather, my super-ego companions are rattling
my cage with their insistence on banal conclusions. And you have
already known them all!